在各种情况下都试图对其他用户友好(Trying too hard to be kind to other users at various instances.)——欧美用户maxarelius对optens的遗憾

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这听起来并不坏，但当我这么做的时候，可能会觉得很烦人。特别是我知道自己很难过，不想被别人说。很多时候，如果我看到有人说自己的坏话，我会立即跳进去，说一些太高兴的话，而不是试图真正帮助和理解。-大黄鱼

Now this doesn't sound bad but when I do it may come off as annoying. Particularly I know myself getting upset a lot and not wanting to be talked to by anyone else. Many times if I saw someone say something bad about themselves I'd immediately jump in and say something way too joyous instead of trying to actually help and understand. - MaxAurelius